Sarah Swafford shares the dating advice that changed her life: you do not need another person to be your savior because you already have one.

In this SEEK26 talk, Sarah gets real about rejection, perfectionism, the “cycle of use,” seeking affirmation from relationships, and the healing she found through Jesus and authentic female friendship. She challenges women to stop using one another, stop chasing perfection, know their identity as beloved daughters of God, and find people who will run with them toward heaven.

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Chapters
0:00 John Paul II and the Zone of Freedom
4:59 What Women Are Really Carrying
6:18 Rejection and the Cycle of Use
14:22 “I Will Not Let You Use Me”
16:44 Let God Be God and Men Be Men
20:45 Female Friendship Healed Me
22:13 Holiness and Confidence
27:23 Comparison, Competition, and Surrender
30:17 Vulnerability, Availability, Accountability
34:37 The Gift of Your Own Healing
40:38 Women Are Not the Enemy