Modern men and women are stuck in a chronic state of biochemical starvation that is literally shutting down their desire to build a family. Today, attachment specialist Adam Lane Smith reveals the controversial truth about how daycare harms a child's brain and why the isolated 1950s nuclear family is actually a destructive lie. He breaks down the three specific habits shared by the top 1% of the most connected mothers, proving that your child's absolute best resource is something you can give for free. If you are running on fumes, this conversation will show you exactly how to heal yourself so you can raise securely attached kids.

Adam's Channel: @AttachmentAdam
Adam's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/
Adam's website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ (use code SECUREMOM for 10% courses!)

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00:00:00 - Intro
00:00:48 - The Top 1% of Moms
00:03:11 - How Are Mothers Fundamentally Different Than Fathers?
00:11:48 - Why do Fatherless homes struggle?
00:13:26 - What are the effects of Daycare?
00:18:14 - What's ideal amount of hours?
00:19:28 - How can mom and baby maximally connect?
00:26:48 - The effect of Adoption
00:34:14 - What's the ideal for a mother?
00:36:41 - Should women work?
00:39:45 - "childhood" isn't a real thing
00:40:29 - How much work is too much?
00:41:39 - How can women develop inner calm?
00:45:22 - Women who can't enjoy motherhood
00:46:44 - Lila's new app
00:49:20 - Nuclear family is a LIE
00:54:51 - Is screentime okay?
00:57:32 - How to build secure attachment early?
00:58:42 - Best day-to-day advice?