Why Do We Choose Unhealthy Relationships? In this vulnerable and powerful reflection, Fr. Columba explores why we’re often drawn to relationships that don’t serve us—and how our deepest wounds can shape who we’re attracted to. He challenges us to confront the lies we believe about ourselves, uncover patterns of shame and self-hate, and invite Jesus into the healing process. God has more for you—freedom, love, and the truth of your worth.

Episode Chapters:
0:00 Introduction
0:12 A Universal Phenomenon
1:20 We Like the Familiar
1:59 I Thought This Person Was Good for Me
3:00 Love is Blind
4:00 It's Difficult to Receive Love
5:25 This Isn't a Healthy, Loving Relationship
6:52 You Are Not Unlovable
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Little by Little | Episode #224

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