Mike and Alicia Hernon get brutally practical (and funny) about what actually strengthens a marriage: the conversations couples avoid. They lay out 10 essential conversations—grouped around identity, belonging, and mission—to help you build unity, reclaim a shared vision (“your why”), grow in intimacy, form your kids, create family culture, choose community, and align time + money with what matters. This isn’t theory—it’s a roadmap for becoming the kind of couple and family that makes God’s love visible in a confused world.

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Chapters
0:00 Introduction
2:06 A Shared Vision with Your Spouse
3:30 3 Fundamental Needs: Identity, Belonging, Mission
4:39 Identity - Who am I? Who is God?
9:30 Belonging
10:00 How do we pursue each other?
13:14 How are we fruitful?
16:18 How are we complementary?
19:18 Mission
19:35 How do we form our children?
22:30 What is our rule of life?
25:05 Who is our community?
27:44 Making it Real
27:56 How do we spend our time?
28:57 How do spend our money?
30:00 The Family Reflects God's Love for Humanity