Dr Ray Guarendi has noticed a scary trend in the last 20 years: family members "icing" other family members. Why is this happening, when (if ever) is it appropriate to go "no-contact," and how can family members restore lost relationships? Dr Ray gives us everything we need to know about this topic.

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00:00:00 - Intro
00:01:08 - 38% of Americans:
00:07:35 - What age is this most common?
00:10:18 - What are the warning signs?
00:15:36 - Are siblings doing this to siblings?
00:19:58 - Parents who keep trying, but it’s not working
00:23:23 - When does it become “toxic”?
00:31:47 - Why does connection matter, anyway?
00:38:08 - Neglect can be harder than abuse?
00:41:26 - Why you should apologize…even if you don’t think you were wrong
00:47:42 - What if the behavior doesn’t change?
00:50:57 - We can only change ourselves
00:55:17 - We’ve gotten spoiled
00:57:55 - How do we respond to being spoiled?
00:59:10 - Ask why someone doesn’t want you in their life
01:03:12 - Forgive 490 times
01:08:26 - How to improve a bad relationship
01:10:50 - How deep should you probe?
01:13:49 - Should you go to same-sex weddings?
01:16:40 - How time heals wounds
01:17:30 - There’s not a science of faith
01:20:36 - Why kids leave the faith
01:24:22 - If this content doesn’t help you:
01:27:23 - Encouraging news to end on:
01:29:20 - Therapists that advise separation
01:35:41 - 1 thing we can all do