When Jesus introduced the new blueprint for marriage—no divorce, total monogamy—it stunned the Apostles. His vision was bold, uncompromising, and utterly countercultural. But with the power of the Holy Spirit, it’s not only possible—it’s transformational.

Enter Father Josiah Trenham: Orthodox pastor, husband of 37 years, and father of ten. In this episode, he unpacks the divine design for marriage—why it’s essential for civilization and for sanctifying your soul. You’ll walk away challenged, inspired, and ready to see marriage as a holy mission with eternal impact.

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00:00:00 - Intro
00:03:40 - Why Focus on Love and Marriage?
00:09:57 - Seven Weeks Coffee
00:10:40 - What is St John Chrysostom’s vision of marriage?
00:18:43 - Jesus establishing the importance of marriage
00:21:55 - Marriage got completely mangled
00:22:48 - Hallow
00:23:38 - (‘No such thing as Judeo-Christian ethic’
00:30:45 - What did early Christians think about marriage?
00:32:25 - Why was sexual revolution so ‘effective’?
00:42:14 - What about single people?
00:47:39 - The role of contraception in demise of sexual morality
00:52:18 - No Fault Divorce
00:55:06 - Pastoring LGBT people
00:59:03 - Theological understanding of marriage
01:07:44 - Honoring Children
01:09:11 - Eros and Sexual Attraction
01:10:07 - Why should couples have children?
01:22:00 - Be fruitful and multiply
01:24:14 - Natural Family Planning
01:28:40 - Sexual Fasting