You don't have to measure yourself against everyone else. Measure yourself against who the Holy Spirit is calling you to be.
Fr. Mike Schmitz reminds us that without the Holy Spirit, "you would despair." But the conviction of the Holy Spirit is: "Lord, I need help... I need You."
And once you answer that call, remember: "every vocation is a vocation of sacrifice... a vocation to pour yourself out. If you're not living it like that, you're not living your vocation."